Ways that people communicate


Being able to communicate effectively is perhaps the most important of all life skills. It is what enables us lớn pass information lớn other people, và khổng lồ understvà what is said to us. You only have lớn watch a baby listening intently to lớn its mother and trying to lớn repeat the sounds that she makes lớn understvà how fundamental is the urge lớn communicate.

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Communication, at its simplest, is the act of transferring information from one place to lớn another. It may be vocally (using voice), written (using printed or digital truyền thông such as books, magazines, websites or emails), visually (using logos, maps, charts or graphs) or non-verbally (using toàn thân language, gestures & the tone & pitch of voice). In practice, it is often a combination of several of these.

Communication skills may take a lifetime lớn master—if indeed anyone can ever clalặng khổng lồ have sầu mastered them. There are, however, many things that you can do fairly easily to lớn improve sầu your communication skills & ensure that you are able lớn transmit và receive information effectively.

This page provides an introduction to lớn communication skills. It is also a guide khổng lồ the pages on evolutsionataizmama.com that cover this essential area lớn enable you to lớn navigate them effectively.

The Importance of Good Communication Skills

Developing your communication skills can help all aspects of your life, from your professional life to lớn social gatherings và everything in between.

The ability lớn communicate information accurately, clearly and as intended, is a vital life skill & something that should not be overlooked. It’s never too late to lớn work on your communication skills & by doing so, you may well find that you improve your quality of life.

Communication skills are needed in almost all aspects of life:

Professionally, if you are applying for jobs or looking for a promotion with your current employer, you will almost certainly need to lớn demonstrate good communication skills.

Communication skills are needed to speak appropriately with a wide variety of people whilst maintaining good eye tương tác, demonstrate a varied vocabulary và tailor your language khổng lồ your audience, listen effectively, present your ideas appropriately, write clearly & concisely, và work well in a group. Many of these are essential skills that most employers seek.

Verbal communication skills are ranked first among a job candidate’s ‘must have’ skills và qualities. According lớn a 2018 survey by the National Association of Colleges và Employers (NACE).

As your career progresses, the importance of communication skills increases; the ability to speak, listen, question & write with clarity and conciseness are essential for most managers và leaders.

Communication is a two-way process

Communication is not the same as broadcasting, or simply sending out information.

It is a two-way process. In other words, it involves both the sending and receiving of information.

It therefore requires both speaking và listening, but also—và perhaps more crucially—developing a shared understanding of the information being transmitted & received.

If you are the ‘sender’ of information, this means communicating it clearly khổng lồ start with (whether in writing or face-to-face), then asking questions khổng lồ check your listeners’ understanding. You must also then listen to their replies, and if necessary, clarify further.If you are the recipient, it means listening carefully to the information, then checking that you have sầu understood by reflecting baông chồng, or asking questions to lớn ensure that you both have the same understanding of the situation.

It is, therefore an active process. There is nothing passive sầu about communication, in either direction.


Developing Communication Skills

Good communication skills can improve the way that you operate through life, smoothing your way in your relationships with others.

Poor communication skills, on the other hvà, can sour relationships from business to personal, & make your life significantly harder.

Some people seem khổng lồ understand how to lớn communicate without even trying. They are able to tailor their language, tone và message to their audience, & get their point across quickly & succinctly, in a way that is heard. They are also able to lớn piông xã up the messages sent lớn them rapidly, understanding both what is said, and what has not been said.

This may seem effortless, but the chances are that they have sầu spent plenty of time honing their skills.

Along the way, they have probably also developed a good understanding of themselves (called self-awareness) & habits of reflecting on success & failure, and the actions that have sầu led khổng lồ one or the other.

A Long-Term Project

Developing excellent communication skills is probably best thought of as a long-term project.

The chances are that you will continue khổng lồ learn about communication throughout your life. Few, if any, of us would ever say that we had nothing left to learn on the subject.

That is not, however, khổng lồ say that it is not worth starting the journey.

There are many small, easy things that you can do immediately that will help you to communicate more effectively.

Communication Skills on evolutsionataizmama.com

Here at evolutsionataizmama.com, you’ll find lots of pages and articles khổng lồ help you understvà và improve sầu your communication skills.

You’ll find sections on:

Interpersonal Communication Skills

Interpersonal skills are the skills we use when engaged in face-to-face communication with one or more other people.

For a good general introduction to the topic of interpersonal communication skills, you may like khổng lồ read our pages on Interpersonal Communication Skills, What is Communication?Principles of Communication. They will help you khổng lồ understvà the basics và start khổng lồ be aware of what you might need to lớn improve.

Our pages on Barriers to Communication and The Ladder of Inference give you some ideas about what may be going wrong in your personal communication processes. Improving Communication provides information about how you might start khổng lồ address those issues. There may, in particular, be issues relating to Intercultural communication, especially if you work or interact with people from other cultures on a regular basis.

Our more specific pages on interpersonal communication skills are divided broadly into lớn Verbal Communication and Non-Verbal Communication & Listening.

Verbal Communication

Verbal communication is all about what we say, which is an important way of getting our message across.

Verbal communication can be both written and spoken, but these pages focus mainly on spoken communication.

The words that we choose can make a big difference lớn whether other people understand us. Consider for example, communicating with a young child, or with someone who does not speak our own language very well. Under those circumstances, you need lớn use simple language, short sentences, và kiểm tra understanding regularly. It is quite different from a conversation with an old frikết thúc whom you have known for years, and with whom you may not even need lớn finish your sentences. Equally, a conversation with a friover is very different from a business discussion, & the words that you choose might be considerably more technical when talking khổng lồ a colleague.

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See our pages on Verbal CommunicationEffective sầu Speaking.

Reflection and clarification are both comtháng techniques used in verbal communication to lớn ensure that what you have heard and understood is what was intended. Reflection is the process of paraphrasing & restating what the other person has just said, lớn check that you have sầu understood. Clarification is the process of seeking more information to insize your understanding, for example, by asking questions. You can find out more on our pages on ReflectingClarification.

Questioning skills are one very important area of verbal communication, often used in clarification, but also lớn extract more information, & as a way to maintain a conversation. Find out more in our pages on Questioning Skills & Types of Questions.

Finally, two specific areas where you will need verbal communication skills, and which are worth considering separately are making a speech, & in conversation.

Non-verbal Communication

Using our voice is only the tip of the iceberg.

We actually communicate far more information using Non-verbal Communication. This includes non-verbal signals, gestures, facial expression, body language, tone of voice, & even our appearance. These can serve lớn either reinforce or undermine the message of our spoken words, so are worth considering carefully.

If you want to lớn say something outrageous, wear a suit.

The late Dr Joe Jaimãng cầu, Organisational Psychologist at Cranfield School of Management.

You can find more about this on our pages on Body Language, Face and Voice, Personal PresentationPersonal Appearance.


Listening is also a vital interpersonal communication skill.

As we said above sầu, communication is a two-way process. Listening is an essential part of receiving information. When we communicate, we spkết thúc 45% of our time listening. Most people take listening for granted, but it is not the same as hearing & should be thought of as a skill.

Our Listening Skills page acts as an introduction khổng lồ the subject & you may also be interested in the Ten Principles of Listening.

Our page on Active Listening provides a lot more information about how to lớn listen effectively & can also help you to avoid misunderstandings, while Types of Listening explains more about the theory of listening.

We also have sầu pages on Ineffective ListeningListening Misconceptions. It is always worth thinking about what you should not do, as well as what you should vị, when trying to develop your skills. You may find that you recognise some of the bad habits you or other people have sầu picked up when listening.

Using Communication Skills

Interpersonal communication skills are important in a wide range of circumstances and environments: probably, in fact, anywhere where we may meet và interact with other people.

We have a number of pages on how to use communication skills. For example, they are essential for starting to lớn build relationships, both professionally & at home. You may find our page on Building Rapport helpful, & also advice on being interviewed (Interview Skills) và interviewing others (Interviewing Skills).

Good communication skills can also help you to lớn provide feedbaông chồng effectively, and in a way that will not cause offence: a vital skill throughout life.

Good interpersonal communication skills enable us to lớn work more effectively in groups & teams, which may be either formal or informal. Our pages on Groups and Teams explain more about working in groups, & the skills required.

Other Communication Skills

Communication skills encompass far more than simple verbal và non-verbal communication, even in a wide range of circumstances. evolutsionataizmama.com also includes pages on some more specific forms of communication skills, such as:

Presentation Skills

Many of us only use presentation skills infrequently. However, there will probably be times in your life when you need khổng lồ present information lớn a group of people, either in a formal or informal setting.

Presentations are far more than simply standing up in front of a screen and talking your way through a set of slides. They also include the ability to lớn get your point across in meetings, both small and large, và even pitching your business idea lớn a potential investor.

Start your journey on our Presentation Skills main page.

Writing Skills

Communication skills are not limited to lớn direct interaction with other people and the spoken word.

The ability khổng lồ write clearly and effectively is also key to lớn communication.

This phối of skills should not be limited khổng lồ journalists or professional authors. Poor written communication can be frustrating for the reader & potentially damaging for the author – would you buy a sản phẩm from a trang web peppered with spelling mistakes, or full of incomplete or unclear sentences?

Browse our pages on Writing Skills lớn help you lớn understvà và overcome comtháng mistakes, and improve sầu how you communicate using the written word.

You may also be interested in our pages on Study Skills. Not just for students, these are the skills you need lớn enable you to lớn learn, communicate your ideas và understand the ideas of others more effectively. They can, in particular, help you to lớn read more critically, và retain more information by making notes: improving the process of receiving written communication.

Personal Skills

Personal Skills are the skills that we use to maintain a healthy toàn thân & mind. But they can also enhance communication.

For example, Improving Your Self-Esteem & Building Your Confidence can help you to feel more positive about yourself và your abilities - including your ability lớn communicate. And feeling positive is the first step lớn acting more positively, and therefore effectively.

By having a deeper understanding of yourself and a more relaxed và positive sầu outlook on life you are more likely khổng lồ be charismatic, a trait that can further aid the communication process. Our page What is Charisma? explains this in more detail. Good communication is also linked to assertiveness, or standing up for what you believe sầu. Our section on Assertiveness explains more.

During times of stress, or when we are angry, we may communicate less effectively. Learn more about these emotions and how lớn control, reduce & manage them in our pages What is Stress? & What is Anger? You may also be interested in Avoiding và Managing Stress and Tips for Dealing with Stress, as well as Anger Management.

We even have sầu pages khổng lồ help you giảm giá with more difficult situations such as Dealing with Aggression and Communicating in Difficult Situations.